Cam2cam private - Guy dating too busy

Before he met you he had his own hobbies, interests, friends, work and studies.

Those things are always going to be important to him.

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He may be someone who always has a lot going on in his life, maybe or maybe not by choice. Petra Boynton is a social psychologist and sex researcher working in International Health Care and studying sex and relationships. Please note that by submitting your question to Petra, you are giving your permission for her to use your question as the basis of her column, published online at Wonder Women.

In thinking about what you want from a relationship it might be you need someone who will put you first and desire a partnership where you spend a lot of time together. All questions will be kept anonymous and key details, facts and figures may change to protect your identity.

You might find yourselves spending more time together, particularly if the relationship is getting serious.

Alternatively you may find you aren’t that compatible.

The good news is you’ve met someone you really like. Outside of that you also have friends, hobbies, interests, and perhaps work or study to keep you busy.

Use this as an opportunity to fill your life with things you like, including him.

He goes to college, has a part time job and plays sport - so he doesn’t have a lot of spare time.

We meet up once or twice a week and talk on the phone every day.

If that is the case, fine for you but be mindful if that’s not what he wants you may be better with someone whose relationship requirements match your own. He doesn’t need to commit to you or change his life. Petra can only answer based on the information you give her and her advice is not a substitute for medical, therapeutic or legal advice.

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