Dating guys with bad reputations

Also, as long as you practiced safe sex and are STD-free, your past is none of his business.

Would a guy tell you about his him-bo days if he was trying to get you to go out with him?

Of course, this particular double standard isn't exclusive to MTV's award-winning docudrama series.

I'm sure the slutty dudes you meet have zero regret for their womanizing ways.

If you're really worried, keep him away from friends or frenemies who would joke about your, uh, "free love" days.

When it came to sex, I only had been with two people, which many Desi girls had their freshman year, but unlike the rest of the Desi girls, I got hit with a horrible reputation.

There are some questions about men that only a guy can answer.

However cool it makes you is exactly how lame it makes him.

You might feel like Joan Jett when he picks you up in his Seville outside the high school in front of all your friends, but he is being mercilessly mocked by all of the women in his life for dating a 14-year-old.2.

The Desi community in America is still so small that even in large cities it seems everyone knows each other.

It really hurt me at the time and still haunts me to this day.

As for the guy, let him know that you're only interested in dating one person now.

If he asks about your past, you can say that you had some wild times just like everybody else but are not in that phase of your life anymore. They'll be too busy falling for the new you to worry about your past.

Bringing it up yourself just brings on unneeded drama and also makes you look insecure.

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