dating a aquarius woman - Dating a man who pays child support

The idea of a boy who never grows up is promoted and even romanticized in our culture as sexy or just “the way men are.” Sadly, women often pay the price for such a prize because there are consequences to keeping this type of “man” in check. This may partly explain why men, by and large, benefit more from marriage than do women.Marriage brings most men greater happiness, better physical health, and more wealth than their bachelor counterparts.

I didn't break up their marriage but, honestly, we were dating and became very serious before his divorce.

His wife at the time became quite angry and jealous when she found out about our relationship because I am much younger and prettier than she is. So this is my first question to you: Why are older women so intimidated and jealous of younger women? Vicki, if they were doing what they should be doing to take care of their man, he wouldn't leave them for a younger woman.

Here's one verse that reminds me of your situation: I know you think the grass is greener way over on the other side, when that judge give you that dirty look, you may as well put your money in Momma's pocketbook. Cost too much to leave her alone, yeah I know it's cheaper to keep her, yeah. Second, his children have every right to be taken care of financially by their father.

Cause you gonna pay some alimony if you leave home, I tell y'all, it's cheaper to keep her.

When he goes out or spends time with friends, he becomes an adolescent again.

He can’t keep adult limits with alcohol, abuses recreational drugs, participates in pranks or generally reverts to a middle-school sense of humor.

This is getting depressing because I believed I was marrying a man with rank and that the rank would equal privilege. Signed, Almost on Welfare Well hello, Young Pretty Wife on Welfare, I can't say that I'm sorry to hear about your recent struggles, but I do have some words of wisdom to share with you.

The only thing I'm getting is stress and worry from trying to make it from the 1st to the 15th of every month while his ex-wife and kids are living the high life off his money. You should listen to some old R&B music and the blues that my mother used to play. Fourth, where is your baby daddy and why isn't he paying you child support?

The second problem I wanted to discuss with you is about my husband's pay.

His wife and kids are getting so much of his money in alimony and child support that he doesn't have the money to take care of me and my children. How can my husband get his child support and alimony changed?

What appears fun and sexy now could eventually become deadweight that you have to carry—along with your children, household duties, and finances.

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