Better to be friends before dating

However, it might place you in a better position to avoid taking things to a level with someone you’re probably better off not going there with.

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You don’t need to choose if you are going to be friends Women have a far easier time deciding who they want to be just friends with and who they would pursue a romantic relationship with, but men tend to group all women together on the ‘potentially romantic’ side, and then just decide their order of desirability.

For this reason, I also believe men try to actually building a friendship with a woman because he doesn’t want to find himself plunging into the dreaded friend zone, and suddenly be seen more as a brother than a potential boyfriend.

Perhaps its his ascot and 3 sets of extra tight suits that rub you the wrong way.

Or perhaps its the wife and three children he was hiding that eventually turns you off.

Also, they never win because if everything is then you will never learn what will make your partner happier and therefore never be able to work on it. Have you ever had a friend who you can go weeks, months, or even years without seeing – but when you do finally get together again it’s like nothing has changed?

Having this type of honesty is essential to a relationship – just always keep in mind friends are never degrading or discouraging, either. Imagine that kind of closeness, that kind of understanding, that kind of comfort, with someone who you are also in love with.

Fellas, maybe she doesn’t like to use coasters and the thought of her leaving watermarks all over your precious glass tables makes you wanna chuck kittens out the window.

Maybe its how filthy she keeps her own home or perhaps its her flare for dramatics that sends you running for the hills.

We want deeper intimate, romantic relationships/connections and we want them now! Yet such an approach often finds us in undesirable relationships with experiences we later regret and/or want to forget, or at the police station filing for a restraining order.

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